Accept Yourself Being Perfectly Happy Being Imperfect!

I would love to have a body like hers!

She is so pretty! I wish I looked like her.

I wish people looked at me the way they look at her!

We love to look at others and compare ourselves to them. Accepting yourself and your situation in life can be a difficult task, but think about it, your favorite celebrities have issues too. For instance, Selena Gomez was just under fire for putting on weight and she is battling an auto-immune disease! There have been a number of famous reality stars that were trying to live a lifestyle they couldn’t afford to impress their fans and ended up breaking the law and serving time in prison. Comparing yourself to others is just not worth it. 

What about being accepting of other mistakes. Do you tend to be more accepting of others' mistakes than your own? If so, you're being too hard on yourself! Those people aren't better than you! You were created with a unique set of talents that no one else has and should be proud of, but if you are focused on others, you will never appreciate your greatness. Plus, everyone makes mistakes. We're only human!

It's time to focus on your fabulousness! Even though self-improvement is a good thing, it's important that you identify and focus on your positive qualities, rather than concentrating on the qualities you feel negatively about. Maintaining this positive focus will not only help you better accept yourself, but it'll also make it easier for you to attain your goals by leveraging your talents to boost yourself forward. You go, girl!

I know Beyonce wakes up flawless, but the rest of mere mortals have imperfections. Once we accept our imperfections instead of focusing on it, then we can grow more comfortable in our skin. This might surprise you, but even the Queen Bee has imperfections, for example when she had put on a little weight and her backside grew out a bit, instead of lamenting about she wrote a song called ‘Bootylicious’. It’s a good lesson for us, Queens to embrace our imperfections and celebrate the amazing bodies that we have. Making the best of your life starts with accepting your imperfections.

Maybe, you want to make some enhancements to your body. Guess what? That is your decision. Disregard what other people might think about your decisions. You'll never make everyone else happy. If you try, you'll soon discover that, not only will other people still be unhappy, but you'll also be exhausted and unhappy yourself. Make your own decisions according to your priorities and be confident that you've done what is right for you.

When you accept the amazing, beautiful woman you are you will avoid worrying about things you cannot change. Rather than wasting your time by being engulfed in fear, take action to do what you can to make the situation better. If there's nothing you can do to change it, focus on moving forward in other ways.

Ms. Fabulous, when you change the way you think about yourself, you'll also change the way you see the world. Every day opens up new opportunities for you, and by utilizing positive thinking, you can make a real difference!